Less arguing. More understanding.

Two sides.
One way forward.

Turn an everyday disagreement into an agreement you can both live with. Tell your stories separately, find common ground, and leave with a clear resolution card.

One free case each month. Both voices matter.

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The goal

Not a winner. A workable agreement.

What you can expect

Equal space for both perspectives

A process designed by a credentialed mediator

Safety screening before resolution

From stuck to settled

A calmer conversation.
A clearer next step.

For roommates sharing chores, couples navigating money, and siblings coordinating care. You don’t have to agree on the story to agree on what happens next.

Resolution card

Illustrative example

A kitchen that works for both.

We’ll alternate dishes each evening and split the Sunday reset. If one of us is away, we’ll swap days ahead of time.

Our next step: check in after two weeks.
  1. 01

    Start with your side.

    Open a case about the chores, the shared budget, or the plan that went sideways. Say what happened and what you need.

  2. 02

    Make room for theirs.

    Send the other person a link. They tell their story privately, in their own words—not in the heat of an argument.

  3. 03

    Find the real sticking point.

    Settlewise reflects both perspectives neutrally, identifies the interests underneath, and offers two or three ways forward.

  4. 04

    Agree on something concrete.

    Choose a resolution together. Your shareable resolution card captures the agreement, so neither person has to rely on memory.

Everyday conflict, not every conflict. Settlewise screens for abuse, safety concerns, and legal disputes and directs people toward appropriate help. It is not emergency support, legal advice, or a substitute for professional care.

Room to work things out

Start small. Get support as needed.

An occasional disagreement or an ongoing habit of checking in—choose the support that fits.

Free
$0
One case per month to find your first way forward.
Monthly support
$6.99 / month
Unlimited cases and follow-up check-ins to see whether your agreement is still working.
Live mediation
$79–$149 / session
A 30-minute virtual session with a real mediator. Session pricing varies within this range.

Free

For individuals getting started

$0/month

  • 1 workspace
  • Up to 3 team members
  • Basic analytics
  • Community support
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Take the first calm step

The disagreement doesn’t have to be the ending.

Start with what’s on your mind. Make space for their side. Build an agreement together.

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